I always thought mental load meant managing the to-do list in my head — until I learned about emotional labor. This is the story of how my four-year-old daughter helped me understand the weight I’ve been silently carrying every day.
Life as a working mom is chaotic. Here’s how I plan for daily routines, stay flexible when life throws curveballs, and avoid total burnout.
Sometimes, the best gift you can give yourself isn’t a vacation—it’s a single day to step back, breathe, and remember who you are outside the to-do lists. My company picnic turned into just that—a quiet reset that reminded me why boundaries matter and how even small breaks can bring perspective.
Growing up, we were taught that we could “have it all.” A career. A family. A life that balances success and love and motherhood like a perfectly managed to-do list. And honestly? That’s true. We can have it all. But what they don’t tell you is the cost. I’ve given everything I have — to …
I’m a number of things. To my kids, I’m Mom. To work, I’m a CPA and accounting manager. To my husband, I’m his wife. Each role comes with its own set of expectations. Its own pressures. Its own mental load — the kind no one else seems to see. The Rhythm That Never Settles Since …